Meaning In the old days, the wedding was most often celebrated very noisily, the guests were the inhabitants of the entire village, and the celebration lasted several days. That is why then they said not to “celebrate” or “celebrate”, but to “play” a wedding. The wedding was like a real theatrical spectacle, each action of which was filled with a certain meaning, and deviation from the accepted order was considered a bad omen. |
#1 Youth festivities (party) Youth festivities and games, during which young people could "show themselves" and look at each other to choose a suitable pair. The participation of young people in such gatherings was obligatory, refusal was condemned by public opinion. |
#1 Matchmaking Matchmakers came to the bride's parents and agreed on the upcoming marriage. If the parties made a joint decision, then later the groom's parents came to the bride's house, who brought with them a collusive gingerbread - a kind of parting word to the future daughter-in-law. |
#3 Dowry preparation During the pre-wedding week, an important step was the preparation of the dowry. The girl left for her new home with clothes, shoes, hats, jewelry, and also with several pieces of canvas to sew clothes for her husband and children. An indispensable component of the dowry was bedding (felt or feather bed, blanket, pillows, sheets), as well as numerous towels, tablecloths, napkins, fly, scarves. |
#4 Hen-party The main rite of the entire bachelorette party was parting with her most important symbol - the girl's scythe. During this ceremony, the bridesmaids braided her braid for the last time, testifying to innocence and purity. The wedding braid was woven in a complicated way, using small strands, tangling the hair, sewing it up with threads, tying it with ropes, tying it into knots and sticking pins to make it more difficult to unravel. The groom's side had to buy the braid from the bride's relatives, most often from her younger brother and friends, after which the braid was untwisted. Relatives of the bride, her friends, guests, as well as the groom's matchmaker could take part in the unweaving. The bride was supposed to resist unraveling: she tangled the ribbon braid in her fingers, twisted the end of the braid around her hand, tightly squeezing it in her fist. The redemption of the braid and its opening meant the removal of all obstacles to marriage and the acquisition of the groom's full power over the bride. The bride's loose hair symbolized her readiness for marriage. |
#5 Ransom Then what happened today is called "ransom". The bridesmaids do not let the groom into the bride's house until he gives them gifts, completes certain tasks (competitions, games), when the groom hands over the money, the entrance is free. |
#7 Wedding The wedding, which was one of the seven church sacraments, united a man and a woman into an indissoluble divine union, perceived as an acceptance of responsibility before God and people: going down the aisle meant "going to the judgment of God." This rite gave legal force to the marriage. It consisted of the betrothal, during which the bride and groom agreed to the marriage and exchanged rings, and the actual wedding, when marriage crowns were placed on the spouses, which was interpreted as the imposition of the Glory of God and the indulgence of God's Grace. |